
anyway everything is fine except for one thing: udp. ntp, dns ... no joy and nfs is like limited to 100mbit despite using my gbit card. but only if ipfilterd is running. if i turn it off everything works fine. i didn't change my rules in years and it worked fine with the old router and any other router i had before.
i had to change my lan ips tho but don't see how that could cause the trouble since everything else except for udp is fine and without ipfilterd that's fine as well.
now the big question is: did anyone encounter something similar? or has any idea why ipfilterd suddenly causes udp problems?
EDIT: this just got weirder. i tried with ipfilter (the 3rd party one) and guess what, same issue

ipfilter on = udp dead. just like with ipfilterd. and the same happened with another machine where i tried both, too.
and yet weirder, even with the firewalls off the nfs speed still sucks. i'm starting to think this is because of the ip change after all. any known issues with irix and 172.16.x.x ?