[[C|-|E]] wrote:
I guess that you have an additional problem if you live in South America. The Spanish from Spain and South American countries is quite different. .
Same here, only worse. I have to laugh at the starry-eyed college kids who wander in ... "I'm going to practice my Mandarin !" Uh, yeah.
Which "mandarin" ? (There is no such thing as "mandarin", that's a foreigner term for standard Chinese, which doesn't really exist either. Well, it does in theory but in practice, better not walk across the street and expect anyone to understand you.) Best true story I know is a guy who spent hours and hours practicing with his Anhui housekeeper. Yup, you guessed it. No one else could understand him at all. If he went back to that village in the middle of nowhere he could talk about the weather, tho

Wolves, my advice would be not to worry so much about the grammar rules, that will just inhibit you. Just talk as much as you can and listen to other people. Language is more of a soaking-in kind of knowledge than a think-about-it kind of thing. And oh yeah, imitate the guys, not the girls. If you always talk to girls (who are definitely nicer and more interesting, to heck with useless males !) then you end up talking like a girl. Not so good ..... lots of foreigners come to Shanghai and practice really hard. Then they go elsewhere in China and everyone thinks they are gay

(Shanghai accent is famous for being ... errr ... soft.) Not that that is necessarily bad but if you don't want people to think that, then you need to be aware of the pitfalls.